Ben and I were watching a documentary related to Hitler and World War II. When the show ended Ben asked me what mental illness Hitler had and if he was going to be like him?
We try to shield both kids from the news; yet it is impossible to completely control what they hear and read. Unfortunately, the media has a tendency to link mass killings with mental illness. I did not realize the extent to which Ben internalized this connection.
Ben and I were driving home after spending four successful days in the Philadelphia area. He was sleeping in the back of the car and I was thinking about Facebook and my reservation to post pictures from this trip.
Twice I started a Facebook post and twice I hit cancel.
Continue reading “The Facebook Illusion”
It never gets easy … saying goodbye after visiting your child at a therapeutic boarding school.
Having gone through this with Ben when he was at a residential treatment center, I should be a pro at saying goodbye. Not even close!
My husband and I just spent three days with Jack. He earned off campus privileges and spent two nights with us.
It was an awesome visit!
Continue reading “Saying Goodbye …”
I LOVE to travel!
I love to explore and experience new things. Getting off the main road and finding local gems is the BEST! And I LOVE the idea of family adventures.
Well, my love for travel does not bode well for Ben and his anxiety. And I mean anxiety with a capital A followed by many exclamation marks! Continue reading “Traveling: Sweating the Small Stuff”
I recently had coffee with a friend. Her high school aged son has received many diagnoses over the years. The question of autism spectrum disorder (ASD) remains on the table.
She asked my thoughts on pursuing a formal ASD diagnosis.
For me diagnoses, or labels, serve three main purposes. To help me better understand what makes my kids tick, to provide others with guidance, and to secure services. Continue reading “What’s In A Label”
I recently attended a four-day parent workshop at Jack’s therapeutic boarding school. This is an opportunity to spend time with your child, meet the kids and their families, and learn and grow as a parent. It is one of the few times during the year that you are with families who truly understand what it is like to raise a child with significant behavioral challenges. Continue reading “My Beautiful Destinations”
My father recently had surgery on his spine at one of the top hospitals in Boston. I brought my son to the hospital to visit his grandfather. This is the same hospital Ben spent four days at in the psychiatric emergency department waiting for a bed at a psychiatric hospital. Continue reading “Segregation is Alive and Well”
I recently watched a 60 Minutes Overtime piece, Stigma of Raising a Mentally Ill Child, and it got me thinking. Mom’s were asked how raising a child with a physical illness is different from raising a child with a mental illness.
The response in unison was casseroles!
Continue reading “The Casserole Theory”
Warning: A pity party to follow.
Every so often it just builds up. Everything in our life requires so much effort and energy. We are limited in what we can do. And when we do attempt typical family outings, we often times pay the price. I get tired of being the face of strength and grace. Continue reading “I Quit!”
Our 11 year-old son just graduated from a Wilderness Treatment Program in North Carolina.
He spent 8 weeks in the woods with a thirty pound backpack from mid-November until mid-January.
Jack missed Thanksgiving and Christmas at home.
He experienced the devastating forest fires, hiked over 200 miles, and slept in a tent with temperatures in the single digits.
Continue reading “Reflections on Wilderness”